When we stay comfortable we stagnate
In a world where we often find ourselves feeling trapped in our own life stories, it’s crucial to recognise that we have the power to choose our path.
We are the master of our life story, we are the creator of our own reality. we, and we alone are choosing to tint the glasses we wear with Victim or Victory beliefs about ourselves no matter what our past, trauma, or history.
Human Design, a transformative system that merges various ancient wisdoms, offers a profound understanding of our individuality which helps us understand how our childhood and how we have been conditioned are responsible for how we view ourselves and the world in other word have shaped the reality we have created for ourselves.
By embracing Human Design, we now have the choice to tap into our true potential so we can change the lens of which we view our reality. In this blog post, we’ll explore the remarkable benefits of knowing our unique Human Design we understand our true nature, so we gain clarity on how we navigate our reality through choosing what is healthy and feels true and correct for us. Here I share some basic rules I now live by though profound realisations on and in my own Human Design journey.
Let go of the friends, family members, and all the people in your life who frequently drain and suck your energy dry giving you sweet FA in return. Embracing our Human Design encourages authentic interactions and genuine connections. When we engage with others from a place of curiosity and care, we organically foster deeper relationships that bring joy and fulfillment.
Start saying “NO” to the favours asked of you that you really want to say NO to. You are playing an active role in debilitating the other person’s capabilities of growing and developing their own life skills. Stop it! You are violating your own personal boundaries, abandoning your inner voice. If your children are witnessing you saying yes to everything you are shaping a belief system in them. One of the essential lessons offered by Human Design is the importance of setting boundaries. It prompts us to let go of relationships and connections that drain our energy and take us away from our joy. By surrounding ourselves with individuals who genuinely support and uplift us, we create space for personal growth. Saying “no” to frequent demands, favours, requests that do not align with our values or personal wellbeing empowers us to cultivate healthy relationships based on mutual respect and understanding. There are a million ways to teach kindness – don’t be a doormat.
Stand up for what you believe, speak your truth (kindly, respectfully and where possible whilst you are in the presence of that person!) If this is too painful write them a heartfelt letter or an email even if what you have to say or divulge may hurt the other person’s feelings… *You have no right to withhold them back from a different path that is waiting for them* Sharing your own truth will set you free you and open new doors for you. Even if you believe you are the bad guy in the story. Human Design teaches us to honour our voice and speak our truth. Sharing our truth, even if it may cause temporary discomfort, opens doors for personal growth and transformation. By embracing vulnerability, we empower ourselves and others to embark on their unique paths, guided by newfound perspectives and opportunities.
Have your own back in every way shape and form, listen to others beliefs, idea’s opinions and views – tell them “that’s interesting” and walk away if it doesn’t resonate. Stop trying to fight, change their mind, prove your worth or validating what is your unique perspective, you are wasting your time and energy, Find those who can listen and have the emotional and intellectual intelligence that will question your beliefs and debate them in healthy, productive ways… interesting stuff happens – trust me, two, or more minds are better than one! If you don’t know how to have your own back – then learn to get to know yourself better. Human Design is the no#1 advanced self knowledge tool available today emphasises the importance of self-support and self-belief. Embracing self-discovery allows us to develop a deep understanding of our own values, enabling us to make empowered choices.
Be accountable for your words, your actions, take responsibility for how you treated or hurt someone, perhaps it was a reaction from your own wounds, past trauma or inability to emotionally regulate? Quit giving the silent treatment or stonewalling because you are uncomfortable in being vulnerable or sharing your own unresolved pain… At least acknowledge your actions, your hurtful tone or the words you said. Say you are sorry, genuinely… and request some time and space if you need time to process the situation. Human Design invites us to take responsibility for our actions, words, and the impact they have on others. Through this process, we learn valuable lessons that enable us to find solutions and emotionally evolve to keep becoming a better version of our self. All of these It really matters to the healing process and is so important to your self-worth, and the personal integrity that you innately possess.
When we can be brave enough to live our truth, risk leaning into courage, learn the art of forgiveness and uplevel our awareness we shine, radiate, and attract so many new possibilities into our lives.
Are you ready to discover the power of choice using Human Design?
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